Preserve in prayer. John 1 Philip. Bring your loved ones before Christ and leave them there.
God’s glory. John 5:19 So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of his own accord, but only what he sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, that the Son does likewise.
Get yourself will out of the way. Doing the will of God is our food. God’s name be glorified. The Holy spirit has to act.